Gilligans Island had a few other messy moments that would thrill me too! The rubber gloves from tree rubber and the mud bath with Maryann and Ginger- early bucket list items!!
Your forum post is fantastic! HEROIC! I'm in a similar spot, though not moving. Definitely prioritizing connecting in-person to our messy brothers! Cheers to you!! The time is always now to be and enjoy being our unique selves!