I've been on this site for so long and thought maybe now is the time for a more meaningful "About Me" section. WAM is not an "interest" of mine. WAM is inherently sexual for me and is part of the fabric of my sexual desires and experience. Watching messy kids television shows is what sparked my interest--the fact that it was around the start of puberty probably helped cement the connection to sexuality. My core WAM interests center around things like pies, cakes, messy balloons--I can only imagine that the reason comes down to the way in which the act of getting hit with a pie is like the best messy moments of sex itself

For a long time I wammed, personally, but still preferred the thought of creaming women from head to toe. As I've gotten older I've realized that my tastes have changed a bit. Now I find myself wanting to be on the receiving end much more. It makes sense to me. Wanting to be utterly humiliated feels like a metaphor for a general sense of a loss of control in life. When I'm tied to the wall and being pummeled with pies, it represents a response to powerlessness--but in a way where I ultimately control what's happening, and in a way that leads to pleasure. Then again, maybe I think too much.

When I get online, I'm looking to escape from what's happening in life and be in a place where I can lose focus of my responsibilities and stressors. My holy grail would be to find a pie girl who sees things similarly and wants her own escape and loves the thought of seeing just what fun she can have messing up a willing and kinky guy.