'm basically a poly/hedonist swinger with a wide variety of sexual interests and fetishes which have the common thread of celebrating sex as a wet, messy, primal experience engaging all of the senses!
I never thought of myself as "BDSM/kink" in the past because I always associated that with the scripted dom/sub whip-and-chain sort of stereotype scene, which isn't me. I don't identify as "sub" or "dom" in an over-arching sense as I find the best play deeply engages both in a constant flux, and I don't do pain/corporal play in the usual sense or typical bondage or role play. Nothing at all against these things or folks who love it, but it's too much "in the head" play for me. For me, sex/kink is about giving myself over to a kind of primal, feral, ecstactic state with my partner(s). My main fare is small group or large orgy group play with a fairly steady but flexible group of friends.
I love that and always will, but I also have more specific interests and a "bucket list" of things that tend to fall outside of the usual range of activities at those parties. More than just the orgasm, what drives me wild about group play or one-on-one is the smell and taste and sensation of being covered with a woman's musk and sweat and cum, lapping up every drop of her gushing, wearing her bite marks and scratches with pride, rimming her and slipping my tongue deep into her ass, cleaning her of mine or someone else's creampie, indulging whatever nasty fetish she won't even admit to anyone else!
I want to do much more with messy play - mud, pies, food, body paint, grease, food, etc. Nobody in my main scene seems to grasp that, and I'd love to find a regular partner or several. I'm willing to buy supplies and set up etc. I would also love to explore outdoor areas - muddy river banks, mucky farm pastures etc!
I never thought of myself as "BDSM/kink" in the past because I always associated that with the scripted dom/sub whip-and-chain sort of stereotype scene, which isn't me. I don't identify as "sub" or "dom" in an over-arching sense as I find the best play deeply engages both in a constant flux, and I don't do pain/corporal play in the usual sense or typical bondage or role play. Nothing at all against these things or folks who love it, but it's too much "in the head" play for me. For me, sex/kink is about giving myself over to a kind of primal, feral, ecstactic state with my partner(s). My main fare is small group or large orgy group play with a fairly steady but flexible group of friends.
I love that and always will, but I also have more specific interests and a "bucket list" of things that tend to fall outside of the usual range of activities at those parties. More than just the orgasm, what drives me wild about group play or one-on-one is the smell and taste and sensation of being covered with a woman's musk and sweat and cum, lapping up every drop of her gushing, wearing her bite marks and scratches with pride, rimming her and slipping my tongue deep into her ass, cleaning her of mine or someone else's creampie, indulging whatever nasty fetish she won't even admit to anyone else!
I want to do much more with messy play - mud, pies, food, body paint, grease, food, etc. Nobody in my main scene seems to grasp that, and I'd love to find a regular partner or several. I'm willing to buy supplies and set up etc. I would also love to explore outdoor areas - muddy river banks, mucky farm pastures etc!