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Name:
Paul
Location:
Taylorsville [SLC], Utah
Last on:
3/18/20
Time here:
5 ½ years
Gender:
Male
Followers:
1
UMD Fetish ID:
96176
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Skype:
pd_lortz
I'm here to:
Chat with friends, roleplay with others, and find others interested in meeting up
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Issues?
About Me:
My name is Paul. My Wife suggested that since she is on here that I too should be, so here I am. I am a life-long Nudist [growing up in a nudist colony in N. California] and an advocate of recreational nudism in this country. I am also what some would call a "Pagan" [non-Christian] as I am Asatru [of Viking Ancestry] and from Norway. I am also a retired Vet. from the U.S Air Force Intelligence Sector being stationed @ Travis afb, California & Nellis, afb, Nevada.

I have been for the past 41 yrs a Life Coach & owner of Salt Lake County Life Coaching and Corporal Punishment where when necessary, I have used different forms of pain management to assist clients in attitude adjustment, readjustment or just stress relief & to help them attain what they need to do for a richer and fuller life for themselves and those around them. That is to say that this is a business and career for me so yes, I am paid, And yes, I said I use Corporal Punishment as one of the forms of pain management and redirection to help clients attain their goals, also if and when necessary. It is not bdsm for me, but I have over the years added elements of same to the sessions incorporating a full dungeon at my business location.

I have experience & a Ph.D. in marital counseling, physiology & Stress Disorders as well, and that assists me in delving into what the client really needs, why and how to deal with it on all its different levels. [and if indeed corporal punishment is the thing that is needed].

I DO not and have not dealt with anyone under the age OF 21; NO way, NO how. ever! Also, BE IT known: MY sessions are all non-sexual! not now! and not IN the past; not ever!

for me at least; communication is key. I always start out discussing the client's situation, getting to know them to gauge what needs to be done, why, and how best I can assist them in accomplishing their goals, to rid them of their bad and or destructive habits. The detail and building trust are just as important as well as 1st and foremost to me. I have had and still do have single clients & couples ranging from law enforcement to professionals to lds leaders and more. Of course, confidentiality is a trademark of my business so there are very few if any pictures or videos of the CP parts of my sessions. [sorry, folks]

I also enjoy teaching others both male and females different ways to incorporate CP and discipline into their lives. I am experienced in what I call being a "punisher" or CP specialist [rather than calling myself a disciplinarian] & I even as part of the CP part of the session believe in lots & lots of mouth soaping whenever needed [ for all those naughty boys & girls who have A urge for cussing allot. I DO not put UP with "potty mouth" language OR disrespect of self or others ].

The fees for my sessions are dependent on what needs to be done after the 1st consultation. sometimes someone just needs some stress relief, and just need to be spanked, etc. for the stress/anxiety relief, and sometimes if someone needs to be reminded of how to deal with their goals. I can usually help [but not always, as I do admit that I do not know everything]

Deal with me and you will for sure find that I am a straightforward and brutally honest man. I was taught this as a youngster & so will say what I mean; mean what I say; will not mince wordsand of course do not tolerate stupid ignorance, disrespect or "Potty Mouths". that will cost you some punishing if done around me.

Another thing is that since my Mother taught me how to make soap at a young age [and did mouth soaping of both my sisters] I have learned a lot about bar soaps, and most importantly what the alkali/acidity and PH levels are and how all these factors need to be applied to soaping the mouth.

So now I have people that bring over boy/girlfriends, spouses, employers or employees and the like to sit down and discuss what they want to have done to them, why and of course go over any medical/emotional problems they might have. We all lay out what is going to be done, how, why, for how long and what the fee is going to be. all parties [me, the person paying for the session and the one about to be punished] are fully aware of what is going to happen and we all have signed copies of the contract. I also if requested [and of course being paid to] will film the session but also have the privacy rights to said video spelled out for them as well.

43 years ago I had quite a few of my friends who knew that I had a fetish of spanking people say that I should start doing it professionally. I laughed telling them that they were nuts. How would I be able to have a way of even advertising that I wanted to do such a thing? How would I even charge for it? What kind of other things would I do in a session? Allot of questions. So, a few of my friends both male and female that enjoyed "playing" doing things like that and having them done to them sat down with me and we designed the formula for what would within a year or so become a business. I went to a couple of lawyers, law enforcement, and medical people to see what could be done legally, what the ramifications could be from a medical point of view, etc. so I sat down drew up a "Punishment Contract" a formal business plan and some money I had then started making up sessions, schedules, fee plans.

I in my spare time I like to make candles & soaps. [ I have also created what I like to call a "Soap Dildo" for use on the really nasty customers] and wham My Wife. I also have lots of experience in building & remodeling, electronics, video, security, computers, and electronics in general, and still, hold a contractor's license.

and last but not least: as for MY fetishes:
I like my Wife "Hannah-Lynn" [who is also on this site] love anything to do with soap, suds, and lather. Many times a year, my wife and I will for no other reason other than to have fun, will wham one another with whatever happens to tickle our fancy. I'm not really into a lot of kinds of food, per se, but we do quite a bit of it. In fact, just the other day [on my Birthday] I got a super large coconut pie whammed upon me as I walked into the bathroom to say hello and that I was home. Of course, that led to "other" things too. I think she posted the incident here.

Any questions about any of this? Please do not hesitate to ask. My wife and I are quite open and honest about our lives, what we do and why.

Paul
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