Mid-30's male, married. Been excited by sploshing for a long time and only recently did a thing about it. I was always too concerned by the thought it was weird and be negatively judged.

I'm interested in gunge, pies, custard, wetlook, leather, pvc. What I love more than anything is humiliation. I love spontaneous mess. My favourite was Noel's Saturday Roadshow from the 80's and the jeopardy of either winning prizes or being absolutely ruined.

I'm not in hiding but my wife has no interest in joining in. I had my first sploshing experience recently and I've figured out I love the deception and the secrets as much as the mess. I'm finding the duplicity a big turn-on. I've been able to find genuine folks that just don't to have a bit of escapist fun, and want more of the same thing. What's important to me are three things: 1) mutual trust; 2) being clear about and respecting each others boundaries; 3) having no regrets.